SEX AND THE HUBBY

Just finished reading NST today...and the first page was very alarming...very very alarming indeed. The men would blame the wifey and the wifey would blame the hubby and some would blame the so many sugar and spice sold like hot cakes out there.Tongkat Ali..kacip Fatimah..the long lasting powerful VIAGRA..blah blah blah....and just look at some of the advertisement these days...firstly the kopi jantan came out than the hubby kejar mengejar the wife after drinking the kopi POWER and then came the kopi janda..and what else..oh just recently kopi kacip fatimah..the wife awaits in the room...what happen next hehehe?

Well some said the wives are partly to blame for their hubby's straying {sleeping with call girl,massage girl,prostitute and blah..blah..blah..}because the wives are career obsessed wives and no time to fullfilling their husband sexual desire.Lack of religous and moral education? C'MMON...the men are not the uneducated men...they are far out enough education given already...The question here is should busy working women be blamed for straying husbands?

NO..BLAMED IT ON THE MEN!!!...they should understand the situation of their marriage..most wives working is to assist in the financial burden.It's the husband's job and obligation to provide the basic necessities..extra income could at least helped in building a home a marriage. Some men took advantage of the working wives. They sometime dont treat thier wives as they should be treated. There are husbands who waits at the wives offices (end of month) and took their ATM card and their money for their own desire..It is cruel enough (mentally abusing)..some working wives are not carreer obsessed but they felt staying at the office are better than going home to a monster...

If a hubby is a good hubby..and understand the whole situation..they wont be straying eating hot dogs outside when they can get a good steak at home. Marriage is not only for SEX.....

Oh got to end this now...sehati berdansa just started..malam bollywood gitew...

An old friend SA called.Facing domestic crisis.They both were a great couple..PROFESSIONALS with combine income 10K per month but their first problem is financial problem...well..they bought a new Cruiser, just came back from holiday in Dubai and umrah in June with (4 children tagging along) what could went wrong? came back from umrah hubby asked for divorce and suddenly came out of what's in his mind..that he has saved for 12 years of marriage..12 years...not one or two days but 12 years??? my god!....

I told SA everyone is facing difficult times these days as the impact of the financial crisis severely affected the world..not only Malaysia and Malaysians..but the WORLD. Desperate people do desperate things...just like the DESPERATE HOUSEWIFE..hehehe

After leaving seperately for a few months they decided to reconcile but....dah jadi drama orang putih lah pulak...they scratching and shouting back at each other....alahai.....

To my children...follow your heart my children coz' I've never got the chance. Not that I'm bad in school but I never tried hard enough. I can do better, but I play around so much that I regret for not having be what I want to be..but I'm glad and I pray my children would achieved what they want to be....Ameen

Alhamdulilah..masih bernafas...an old friend called this morning.Want to have a reunion.Many misses me...really?oh well...I am what I am.I have obligation that needs fulfilled maybe...later..not now but later....

What's in my mind now has always been that money matters..although I'd rather not knowing the reality of the situation,perhaps its a good time to tighten the belt for a while...
THAT MONEY saga is likely to contaminate the atmosphere...but until when?...Ya ALLAH..you're the greatest...

Feeling a little pooped and overeating..Hubby is recuperating from his mitral valve surgery.Aidil has gone out for his motorbike classes since morning and still did not come home yet...dah sure pergi CC main game. Anak dara tengah tengok shin chan...hmmm dah maghrib rupenye...kene berhenti dulu lah nampak gayanye....