SEX AND THE HUBBY

Just finished reading NST today...and the first page was very alarming...very very alarming indeed. The men would blame the wifey and the wifey would blame the hubby and some would blame the so many sugar and spice sold like hot cakes out there.Tongkat Ali..kacip Fatimah..the long lasting powerful VIAGRA..blah blah blah....and just look at some of the advertisement these days...firstly the kopi jantan came out than the hubby kejar mengejar the wife after drinking the kopi POWER and then came the kopi janda..and what else..oh just recently kopi kacip fatimah..the wife awaits in the room...what happen next hehehe?

Well some said the wives are partly to blame for their hubby's straying {sleeping with call girl,massage girl,prostitute and blah..blah..blah..}because the wives are career obsessed wives and no time to fullfilling their husband sexual desire.Lack of religous and moral education? C'MMON...the men are not the uneducated men...they are far out enough education given already...The question here is should busy working women be blamed for straying husbands?

NO..BLAMED IT ON THE MEN!!!...they should understand the situation of their marriage..most wives working is to assist in the financial burden.It's the husband's job and obligation to provide the basic necessities..extra income could at least helped in building a home a marriage. Some men took advantage of the working wives. They sometime dont treat thier wives as they should be treated. There are husbands who waits at the wives offices (end of month) and took their ATM card and their money for their own desire..It is cruel enough (mentally abusing)..some working wives are not carreer obsessed but they felt staying at the office are better than going home to a monster...

If a hubby is a good hubby..and understand the whole situation..they wont be straying eating hot dogs outside when they can get a good steak at home. Marriage is not only for SEX.....